Has your spouse turned into their mother or father, over the years you've spent together?

I understand where your coming from. You guys probably need to find a time to sit down together and just talk. Get all of your feelings out and let him know them. Then let him tell you his feelings! That way you will know how he feels. Maybe just go away for the weekend and just let it be the two of you. It will be a great opportunity to fall in love all over again. I hope everything works out for the two of you! I'm sorry!